Miyu Imazaki - NURTURER
I totally agree with this result. I think one of my strengths is being conscientious and mature. I always care about other people’s feelings and try to see things from different perspectives. This result also says that I tend to avoid conflict, which is true because I don’t like trouble or arguments with others. I try to avoid them as much as possible, even if it means enduring something unpleasant. However, I know that avoiding conflict is not always a good thing and sometimes doesn’t lead to productive outcomes. If I had to disagree with one point, it would be that others take advantage of me. I’ve never felt that way. If I realized that someone was trying to take advantage of me, I would make sure to express my opinion clearly.
I can totally feel you!
ReplyDeleteWhat would you do if you miss an opportunity to express your feeling?
Do you leave that feeling alone? Or do you say it outright later?:)
Umm, that’s a really difficult question. Of course, the best way would be to say it later, but realistically speaking, I wouldn’t be able to express my true feelings because one of my weaknesses is being honest about my thoughts:(
DeleteI agree that you always care about others' feelings! I'm sure that it's one of your strengths.
ReplyDeleteOh, thank you so much for your kindness! :) I’ll cherish my strengths, just as you said.
DeleteI think this result suits you very well! What kind of experiences have you had you endured something to avoid conflict?
ReplyDeleteThanks:) I often go along with what others want, even if I don’t really want to go somewhere or eat something. Maybe it wouldn’t cause conflict if I just said how I feel or think, but I feel it hard to express my true feelings. 😭
DeleteI agree with your result as a nurturer. I can feel that you are a caring person and I also support your opinion that you should protect yourself when someone is trying to take advance of you.
ReplyDeleteThank you! And totally the same as you! :) It’s awful to be taken advantage of. If we feel that way, we should express our true feelings to them.
DeletePerceiving something from different perspective is one of my goals that sholud be realized. I respect you for being able to do that! I'd like to know how you accomplished that.
ReplyDeleteOf course, it’s still not enough, and I don’t have the confidence to give you good advice, but one thing I’m trying to do is deeply imagine how I would feel if I were in the other person’s place and look at myself from a distance.
DeleteI can note that u a caring person, also I agree with u that avoid conflicts will be useful to be relax and being far from stress, but in sometimes we must facing some of those conflicts because it's gonna effect in a negative way on us if we just escape. However I prefer to avoid it also :)
ReplyDeleteExactly, I totally agree with you. Sometimes, it can’t be helped to have conflicts with others.
DeleteI also don't like confrict others, therefore I can understand your feeling.
ReplyDeleteYes, I don’t want to conflict with others as much as possible🥲︎
DeleteI also prefer to avoiding conflict. But sometimes little misunderstanding could hurt the relationships with friends. I am learning to change recently.
ReplyDeleteHmm, it’s a good perspective. Sometimes it can’t be helped to avoid conflict with friends to keep or improve our relationship, right? I will keep this in my mind:)
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