Yusuke Ishida - Counsellor
For example, it says I’m gentle, but I wouldn’t describe myself that way. I can be quite blunt with my friends at times. I feel far from being a "gentle" person. It also labels me as cautious, which I partially agree with. I tend to think carefully before speaking or making decisions, whether the matter is significant or trivial. I often take time to reflect before reaching a conclusion, yet I also rely on gut feelings when making choices.
However, I fully relate to being peaceful. I avoid conflicts and prefer to keep things harmonious. I naturally take the path of least resistance.
The textbook also describes me as relaxed, creative, deeply private, and difficult to get to know. I resonate with the first two. I feel most comfortable in a laid-back state. However, while I may not always reveal much about myself, I enjoy connecting with others.
First thing you are gentle, and it's really good that you avoid the conflict.
ReplyDeleteyour topic explanation was brilliant :)
Thank you for saying that!
DeleteThat means a lot to me
It sounds like you value harmony and thoughtfulness. How do you balance being relaxed and private with wanting to connect with others?
ReplyDeleteThank you, Miyu!
DeleteOne way I manage this balance is by joining activities or groups where I feel comfortable rather than forcing myself into overwhelming situations!
I also set aside personal time for myself, whether it’s watching a anime or just having a quiet moment!:)
I learnt a new aspect of you from your post :-D
ReplyDeleteThank you, Noriko!:)
DeleteI need to learn from you too! We have a lot in common!
I also think you are a relaxed and creative person as I had paired with you in the class.
ReplyDeleteThank you!
DeleteI’m sure you have a great understanding of others!
I also hate conflict and am gentle. We have many similalities!
ReplyDeleteOur thinking is similar, isn’t it?!
DeleteGood to hear that!
I'm so glad to know about you. I'm indecisive and I take a lot of time to make decision too. I sometimes lose chance to do something because of it...
ReplyDeleteIt happens to me a lot!
DeleteI’m indecisive and tend to sleep on my decision…!
I make sure to learn from missed chanses when I have them so that I can take advantage of it the next time!
You mentioned that you tend to think carefully before speaking or making decisions. I need to learn from you because I always make decisions by following my feelling.
ReplyDeleteYou don’t have to do it as your way of thinking is also amazing!
DeleteI think there is no right way so just stay the way you are and believe yourself! That’s the good way for you!
I think you're kind and gentle. Being cold to others temporarily doesn't mean you're not kind. You're one of the guys that was easiest to talk that I had talked to before.
ReplyDeleteI appreciate that you said so!
DeleteYou are also kind and sincere!
I feel comfortable talking to you!